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In today’s fast-paced world, even the strongest leaders find themselves torn between competing priorities — both at work and at home. Deadlines versus strategy. Urgent tasks versus family dinners. At times, the pressure can make us lose sight of what truly matters.
Struggling to navigate the complexities of leadership? Discover how mastering the three leadership hats can help you inspire, empower, and drive success with confidence.
Great leaders know their behaviour, words, and decisions must match up with their core values. It's the guiding star they can always rely on even in times of great complexity and difficulty. Too often, however, we say and do things based on our egos, emotions or what someone else wants, or make decisions based on expediency. It doesn't feel right but sometimes we don't think we have a choice. Here is my take on how you can resolve this challenge.
Money—it’s a necessity, but what happens when our love or fear of it keep us trapped in comfortable misery? This thought-provoking video dives into how to free ourselves from attachement to money.
Have you ever looked at your life and felt like something’s missing? It’s what I call comfortable misery—everything looks fine, but deep down, there’s a craving for more purpose and meaning.
If this resonates, you’re not alone. Every hero’s journey starts here, with the decision to stop settling and seek something deeper.
Have you ever felt stuck, wondering if there’s something more for you? I've been there. Deep down, I knew I was meant for something different, something bigger.
Recently, I found myself overwhelmed by fear and self-doubt. My mind raced with thoughts of inadequacy and potential failure, imagining all the things that could go wrong.
We need something better to make important decisions than feelings or weighing up the pros and cons. A values framework is our ‘guiding star’ to make choices based on what’s most important, which is rarely ‘logical’ or what feels ‘good’.
A mentor can be such a gift because we’re not alone. There is someone who will listen, give us room to think, and maybe share a story of their own struggles. Here are some reflections.
Every hero experiences a big fall before they begin their ascent upwards. They can’t prevent or stop falling because it is a crucial part of the journey. Learning how to fall well is the best.
A few times in my life I’ve got super excited about a new direction in my journey, like securing an investor for a new business, being appointed MD of a consutliing firm, or starting my own mentoring firm. After a brief honeymoon, however, challenges would always appear thick and fast. In those moments I sometimes wished I’d never bothered and just want to throw my bike in the bush! It’s worth persevering, however.
In part 4, we look at the longings calling you to change your life. We often dismiss these longings as childhood fantasies or silly daydreams, but they contain the seeds for the next phase of life, the direction you want to take, and who you want to become.
When we hit midlife we often find the goals we’ve been pursuing don’t seem to matter much anymore. That’s a recipe for disillusionment. But what if that was just the next step of the hero’s journey?
By mid-life we’ve probably achieved most of what we dreamed of in our youth yet instead of satisfaction we often feel disappointed, anxious or bored, asking ourselves, ’Is this it?’ The first half of life has come to an end and we must undertake a hero’s journey (even if we don’t feel like heroes) to find our way to the second half where a new meaning, purpose, and set of values awaits us.